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Peer blog: Escaping Exam Blues

By: Alana Kearney, 4th year Concurrent Education, English major

We all know that feeling of looming exams and deadlines. Libraries are packed, stressed students are everywhere, and campus seems to have a grey cloud stuck above it. Although academics are important, mental and physical self-care is equally as vital in ensuring a successful exam season. After going through four years of exam seasons, I have come up with some tips and tricks to ensure a successful exam season and escape those dreaded exam blues:

1.Take breaks

This one may seem obvious, but when you are five hours deep into your Stauffer grind the day before an exam, a break may seem like the furthest thing on your mind. The 50/10 rule is a great way to schedule in breaks! After 50 minutes of studying, give yourself 10 minutes to go on Facebook, watch a YouTube video, or go for a quick walk. You will come back to your studying refreshed and ready to focus again.

2. Switch up your location

There are tons of places in Kingston that offer places to study! Libraries like Bracken offer a quiet alternative to Stauffer, while coffee shops downtown such as Crave and Sipps have lots of seating and a welcoming environment. If the weather is nice, Victoria Park is an awesome place to get some work done while enjoying the outdoors. Picking different places to study may help you feel less caught up in the exam stress that encompasses campus.

3. Plan ahead

Planning your exam schedule is a great way to combat the stress that comes along with exam season. The SASS Study Plan can help you stay on track (read about how to use it here). Putting in fixed commitments and estimated studying hours will leave you with space that you can use for things that make you happy. It may seem silly to plan things like going to the gym or painting your nails, but when you are overwhelmed with stress you will be glad to have a planned break.

4. Reward yourself

Find something you love and reward yourself with it throughout the exam season! It can be whatever fits your needs but for me it is always chocolate pretzels. After a long day of studying, having a nice treat is something to look forward to and helps me calm down and regroup for the next day. A reward could be anything that helps bring some joy back into your day.

5. Get a good night’s sleep

Sleep during exams?! Pulling all-nighters or only getting a few hours of sleep may seem like the only way to accomplish everything; however, it will only hurt you in the long run. Sleep is necessary for learning, memory, and good physical and mental health. When you sleep, your brain processes everything you studied during the day into your long-term memory. You’ll also boost your immune system so it can fight off potential illness during this busy time.

Good luck on exams!

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Peer blog: University—all studying and no fun?

By: Cherry Chun, 3rd Year Life Sciences

 It’s that time of the year again—exam season, the last hurdle for students before the repose of summer days comes at last. Exam season often seems filled with sleepless nights and a whole lot of stress induced by intensive studying. However, this blog is here to remind you of the other aspect of university that’s discarded during this time—extracurriculars.

During this time of the year, when the winter term is coming to an end, many clubs at Queen’s seek new members. This recruitment may be a surprise—or the last thing on your mind—for a lot of people, as it was for me in my first year. Recruitment for clubs occurs not only at the start of September, but mostly at the end of the year. Although this period of time may be quite stressful, I also highly recommend keeping on eye out for potential clubs you may be interested in joining for the next academic year. The information that you gain from your lectures is valuable, but the experience you gain from the clubs you join is equally important. Whether it is related to your field of major or not, joining a club as a hobby can also impart invaluable knowledge that you never thought you needed!

As a Life Sciences student, I’ve been learning a bit about the pathology of various neurodegenerative disease, including amyotrophic lateral sclerosis (ALS). From lectures, I was able to recognize various symptoms and cellular mechanisms involved with the neurodegenerative disease. But when I joined the Queen’s ALS Club, the way I viewed the disease completely changed. I began to view ALS from the patients’ perspectives—their hardships and struggles against ALS widened my narrow viewpoint, which was filled only with hard facts.

If I could give one tip to an incoming student at Queen’s or to my own first-year self, I would say this: don’t be afraid to join any clubs you have an interest in! Just as academics are important, the experiential learning you can acquire from joining a club is also crucial. Join the TEDxQueensU, or the Queen’s Squirrel Watching Club. There’s a club for practically any hobby you may have—and if there isn’t, don’t be afraid to start your own, as there are bound to be like-minded people in the sea of 25,000 students here.

In the end, I agree that exam season is stressful and makes it hard to focus on anything else. All I ask is that you keep all this information in the back of your mind and remember that university is more than just the academics and tests!

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Peer blog: Sleep: my favourite, but often forgotten study strategy

By: Meghan White, 2nd Year Biology

I lost my ‘bedtime’ in elementary school but I would always go to sleep early anyway. In high school, everyone thought I was ridiculous for going to sleep early. They thought that I would surely change my sleep schedule when university came. Then I started at Queen’s, and some days I do rely on coffee, but usually I sleep 8-10 hours a night. University students aren’t well-known for their good sleep habits and I’ve had so many people tell me they don’t understand my self-imposed bedtime or say that it wouldn’t work for them. Not sleeping well is the norm, and is sometimes regarded as an accomplishment. Yet should it be?

Sleep is important, and exists for a reason. It has physical, emotional, and even academic benefits. It can help control metabolism, decrease inflammatory proteins, and reduce stress (Vyazovskiy 2015). Moreover, people are often much more joyful, energetic and attentive after a full night’s sleep; at least, I am!

Sleep is also key in memory consolidation and encoding, which is useful when you’re trying to understand and use complex new information in courses. Memory can be broken down into three parts: encoding (processing/acquiring information), storage (maintaining information), and retrieval (recalling information). Sleeping helps in the transition of taking in information to retaining it, making content-heavy courses seem more bearable. While you sleep, your hippocampus rearranges your memory and strengthens the emotional components of it, which can increase your creativity. Sleep also increases your attention span, which can lead to better note-taking, more effective studying and greater productivity overall.

My friends definitely notice when my sleep changes or if I’ve been awake for too long; I’m exhausted yet hyper, I’m unmotivated and I can’t focus for longer than 30 seconds. Sleep loss also has other effects:

  1. It decreases mood and energy. I’m definitely more stressed, more drained, and less happy if I haven’t been able to sleep well for a few days.
  2. It decreases motivation. Trying to stay awake requires all my energy and so I have little left to do anything else. When I find I have no motivation, 20-minute power naps are my best friend.
  3. It decreases productivity. I may be more likely to fall asleep in class, I often can’t concentrate taking an hour to read one page, or I lose all memory capability.
  4. It also weakens my immune system. I find that I get sick way more if I’ve been under stress or haven’t been sleeping. One of the best ways that I get over being sick is by sleeping.

Is the solution just hitting snooze and taking more naps? In some cases yes, but the National Sleep Foundation recommends getting 7-9 hours of sleep a night. This may seem daunting, but the SASS website has a lot of tips for getting not only more sleep, but better sleep. Here are some of my favourites:

  • Sleep as much as you needed to feel refreshed, but not more.
  • Get up at a consistent time throughout the week.
  • Turn off devices and stop work at least half an hour before you go to bed.
  • Make a sleep routine that could include a creating to-do list for tomorrow, stretching, or breathing exercises.
  • Deepen sleep by getting a steady daily amount of exercise.
  • Use white noise to help drown out background noise and improve sleep.
  • Keep your room temperature a little cool.
  • Eat a light snack before bed as hunger disturbs sleep.

If you’re really struggling to sleep and are worried about its impact on your health, contact Student Wellness Services. If you’re just looking to improve your grades in a way that doesn’t leave you burned out and makes you healthier too, here’s to sleep: my new favourite study strategy!


Vyazovskiy V. V. (2015). Sleep, recovery, and metaregulation: explaining the benefits of sleep. Nature and science of sleep7, 171-84. doi:10.2147/NSS.S54036



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Peer Blog: “Everybody’s a Critic”: Tips for Critically Engaging With Secondary Sources You Agree With

By: Jack Williams, 3rd year English Student

This past winter, I had a first-year student come into an appointment looking for help with an annotated bibliography for a Sociology paper. It was her first time ever writing one, and she was understandably concerned about navigating the tricky business of incorporating and evaluating secondary sources.

“It says to critically evaluate my sources,” I remember her saying, “but this source is perfect for my paper. I agree with everything they’re saying and I’m having trouble finding any flaws significant enough to write about, but I can’t just say ‘it was good’ and leave it at that—what am I expected to do here?”

I chuckled to myself; this was a pain I knew all too well. Be it in SOCY 122, ENGL 200, or ENGL 375, I have always found it exceptionally difficult to do more than simply agree with a secondary source that complements my own position. After all, students work with the writings of professional academics, so it is easy to feel as though there’s nothing to add. I have often fallen into the trap of simply reiterating and reaffirming a scholar’s arguments, missing out on the evaluative element which is so essential to the effective use of secondary sources.

It was not until I critically evaluated my working definition of “critical evaluation” that I figured out what I could do with those pesky articles I so inconveniently agreed with.

Drawing upon this (very recently acquired) understanding, I suggested to the student that she consider extending the argument rather than choosing between either supporting or criticizing it. Taking this kind of approach enables you to do a little bit of both; by identifying the relevance of a given article for a different but related issue or field of inquiry, you can express your support for the author’s logic and method while demonstrating critical engagement by expanding on the potential applications of their work. Understanding “critique” as encompassing the expansion of a source’s scope and the refocusing of its consequences in addition to disagreement or refutation is a helpful tool for thinking about how to converse with these sources in your own work and ensure that you are making explicit, meaningful connections which bolster the strength of your own argument.

For example, let’s say I decide to use the SASS website’s guide for writing critical reviews as a secondary source for this post. It outlines two different strategies for approaching a review, and sets out a number of useful questions to help kick start the reader’s thinking: there’s nothing there for me to refute or challenge. I could, however, extend it and claim that the various prompts it sets out are just as applicable to writing annotated bibliographies as they are to critical reviews, as the areas it addresses—scope, logic, evidence, objectivity, organization, style, and general value—are exactly the kinds of concerns which a good annotated bibliography addresses, and can serve as useful focal points for evaluating a given source.

I could extend its implications even further and claim that it can also serve as a useful guide for how to read secondary sources with an eye toward producing arguments from them. If you find yourself really agreeing with a scholar’s work, ask yourself—am I convinced by the evidence? The logic? The style? Why are these factors effective or ineffective? Are they appropriate to the point being made? How do they interact with one another? Could the work be improved by adding, taking away, or expanding on any of these strategies? Evaluative questions like these can form the kernels of arguments, which can help you determine the focus and trajectory of your paper. Thus, I could argue that the critical reviews guide has utility which extends beyond simply writing critical reviews.

Although working with secondary sources can, at times, feel intimidating (indeed, I have struggled with it for most of my academic career), I have found that viewing this engagement as a conversation rather than an argument per se has helped me make more effective use of secondary sources in my own work. As I hope to have demonstrated above, you do not have to criticize a source to engage with it critically: “criticism”, in the academic sense, is more helpfully understood as a holistic process of closely examining the form and content of a piece of writing in order to understand how and why it does what it does. In other words, you need not be a critic, in the polemical sense, to be critical.

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Peer Blog: Catching Up to Road Runners

By Becky Bando, 4th year Con-Ed/English student

If you have ever watched an episode of the cartoon Looney Tunes, I guarantee that at some point during that episode there was a chase scene. We see this same storyline occur in almost every episode between characters such as Sylvester and Tweety, Elmer Fudd and Daffy Duck, and Yosemite Sam and Bugs Bunny. But out of all of these chase scenes, the most intense ones would have to be between Wile E. Coyote and the Road Runner. Unlike other antagonists, the Coyote does not appear to have any other food sources aside from the Road Runner since he is out in the dessert. This makes him one of the most desperate predators, and the only Looney Tunes character that I have ever felt sorry for.

Why? Because whenever I am in a situation where I am extremely behind in my academics, I see myself as being in the position of the Coyote when I know I need to be in the position of the Road Runner. Every year I feel as if I am always struggling to keep up with my readings whereas all of my classmates are Road Runners who always seem to be on top of everything. It is important to know though that everyone becomes the Coyote and falls behind in school from time to time. Even those students who appear to be Road Runners are probably more tired of running than you think.

So, as a very experienced coyote myself (who did not do many readings over Reading Week), here are my tips for catching up in school:

#1) Look ahead

While it is important to finish readings that should have been completed earlier, it is more crucial that you look at upcoming readings and assignments. Sometimes we get so caught up in trying to catch up that we do not pay attention to what we have coming up next. In Looney Tunes, the Coyote also uses this method by running to specific locations that he knows the Road Runner will come by in the future, rather than running off a cliff (which does happen at times). You can also can anticipate your own Road Runner’s next destination through using your syllabus. So, make sure that you still schedule in time for your upcoming readings and evaluations. Your schedule may also help you understand which readings should be done now, versus during the exam study period when you may have more time to catch up. Here are a few helpful scheduling templates: https://sass.queensu.ca/time-management/schedule-templates/

#2) Don’t fall for the procrastination trap!

Sometimes we take so long planning that we unintentionally get even further behind. Anyone who knows me knows that I am a “worry-planner,” and the Coyote is also a prime example of this. He spends far too much time creating elaborate traps out of sheer desperation. He even makes a painting of a fake tunnel on a wall to trick the Road Runner into crashing into it. So while it is useful to plan ahead, make sure you do not invest all of your time into it. Trust me—a hand-written colored schedule with a color legend to decipher it is not always the quickest option in March. A great way to counter stress-planning is using a variation of the 50/10 rule, where you do 50 minutes of homework but substitute your 10 minutes of relaxation for 10 minutes of planning. The SASS Assignment Calculator is also a quick method of creating a plan without spending too much time on it since it can automatically break an assignment into a series of steps and deadlines for completion: https://sass.queensu.ca/onlineresource/assignment-calculator/

#3) Be realistic and prioritize

Let’s be honest, you were probably working your butt off when you fell behind. So how are you going to catch up to the Road Runner when you were already working your hardest just to keep up with him? The Coyote never faces the fact that the Road Runner is too far ahead of him, yet he still chases him. That being said, just because you cannot complete all of your readings, does not mean you still cannot achieve an acceptable grade. Also, remember that you should never sacrifice your health habits (such as sleeping, exercising and eating) in order to gain more time to catch up. For good health are what make academic success possible. In cases where catching up is impossible, it is important to consider your options. Try identifying which readings and assignments are more important than others; use prioritization strategies such as the ABC method: http://sass.queensu.ca/time-management/

#4) Ask for help

The difference between you and the Coyote is that you are not stranded alone on a desert. There are several resources that can help you get back on track such as:

  • your professor/TA: It can be nerve-wracking admitting to your professor how far behind you are, but the worst thing they can say is that they cannot help you. Though most of the time they can offer more helpful course-specific strategies for catching up. Here are some tips for how to communicate with your professors: https://sass.queensu.ca/communicating-with-profs/.
  • your friends/peers: When I fell behind in my biology course, some of my classmates and I created a Facebook page where we divided up the note-taking on upcoming readings. While this is not the best method for learning course material, it gave us an understanding of the content covered in class and required for assignments.  
  • Student Academic Success Services: The Peer Learning Assistants at SASS offer several helpful workshops on topics such as time management and procrastination. There is even a “Catching Up!” workshop on March 12th (https://sass.queensu.ca/programs/workshops/)! You can also book free one-on-one consultations with Learning Strategies and the Writing Centre (https://sass.queensu.ca/programs/appointments/).

Being weeks behind in a course is one of the worst feelings as a student, and can turn us into the most desperate version of the Coyote. While it may seem as if we will never catch up to the Road Runners of university, we have a chance of getting back on track by staying calm (through following these tips) and not working to the point of burnout. Here are a few other great resources:

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Peer Blog: Finding Your Voice Through Community

Megan Vahabi, 5th Year Education Student

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I completed my undergraduate degree at Queen’s and truly loved every moment. As a Concurrent Education student, this year I started my second degree in Education. For some reason I thought my final year would be the exact same as the previous four I had come to love throughout undergrad. To my surprise, I noticed my life felt more different than similar. The loss of my friends graduating and moving home or to other provinces finally dawned on me. Before the school year, I was excited to have one final hurrah as a Golden Gael. Yet I was feeling something I had not experienced before. Call it grief? The feeling of being left behind? Not quite. Upon reflection, I realized there was a gap in my life—I felt I had less community. Only then did I realized how deeply important it is for me to have a supportive group.

In undergrad, I relied heavily upon extra-curricular involvement to help create balance and structure. Being involved outside of school offered a different kind of stimulation, one for the soul, which offset the stress of academics. The encouragement and validation from my extra-curricular communities helped me learn to feel comfortable in unfamiliar settings. The first risk I took was arguably the most impactful and important. By sharing my story, I hope to convey the value and importance of stepping outside your comfort zone.

Most of my life, I did not know much about my Ojibway heritage. I decided to change this narrative by accepting an invitation to lunch at Four Directions. I was very nervous and riddled with self-doubt. Would I actually fit in? Upon arrival, I was immediately met with open arms and unconditional support. The elders and advisors listened when I was stressed about school and offered tangible solutions. Amidst the hustle and confusion of first year, I felt at home. This was my introduction to the various kinds of “test kitchens” Queen’s has to offer. The new-found confidence gave me second-hand courage which I carried into classes. I became more vocal about my questions and concerns. I went to a professor’s office…they are real people and very kind. I highly recommend having a chat with your favourite prof.

For me, community support is the ultimate recipe for academic success. I like to think of extra-curricular involvement as the test kitchen for the piece de resistance—my academics. The test kitchen is the ideal environment for risk-taking to help foster confidence and a sense of belonging. It is inviting unfamiliarity into your life with open arms and embracing change. Once you have found your “kitchen,” you can begin cooking up new experiences and relationships. So, how have I been creating in the kitchen lately?

This past September, I noticed I was quieter in class and shy. I experienced what I like to call “first-year confusion” once again. With so much of my undergrad community not on campus anymore, I was on the hunt for a new kitchen to whip up some courage. I knew the antidote to my shyness was extra-curricular involvement outside lecture. While on this hunt, I discovered some cool spots to network and meet other graduate students. Did you know every week in the JDUC room 352 there is a drop-in writing space? Or the third floor of the Grad Club is open for students to hang out and study? These kinds of spaces give me comfort, knowing that I can be productive and network at the same time. 

To get the most out of university, I cannot say enough about the importance of finding a community and feeling welcome. It gave me the strength to be more present in class and excited to be on campus. You can never have too many cooks in the kitchen when it comes to community!

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Peer Blog: An Introvert’s Guide to Class Participation

By: Rachel Mackintosh, English, Class of 2019

Do you listen more than you talk? Do you like thinking deeply about something before speaking up about it? Do you often feel put on the spot in class despite having read the materials?

If you answered yes to these questions, chances are you’re an introvert! And as an introvert, the classroom environment can often be a daunting setting. In larger first- and second-year classes, merely showing up often translates to a good participation grade. However, as class size decreases in upper years and large lectures turn into intimate seminars, your presence is no longer enough; you are now expected to speak up.

So what is an introverted student to do when 15 – 25% of your grade is affected by a core aspect of your personality? While people might tell you to “get out of your head” or “not to care so much,” it is often more complicated to turn this into a daily practice and permanent solution. 

After years of having a pounding heart and sweaty palms when raising my hand, I now find myself one of the main contributors to one of my 4th-year seminar classes. So, here are some of my tips to help you find confidence in your own voice. 

#1) Do some reflecting.

Take time to think deliberately about why you’re so nervous to speak in the first place. Is it the fear of sounding stupid? Is it the fear of being judged? Sometimes when you articulate these concerns aloud or in writing you can realize the severity – or lack thereof, of the issue. In the former instance, I would recommend booking a learning strategies or counselling appointment that will walk you through personalized solutions. 

#2) You have to prepare.

Last semester, one of my friends who participated in every single class, confessed to me that he hadn’t done a reading for the class in the last couple of weeks. Although frustrated by his extroverted ease, I realized that unlike him, I would never achieve this confident state without preparation.

You are more likely to feel confident if you come to the class discussion prepared and ready to engage with the material having read through everything in advance. To feel extra-confident, maybe do some additional research, or prepare questions. 

#3) Contribute in other ways than just voicing your opinion.

While we often think participation means voicing our opinion or interpretation in a long-winded way, or answering questions posed by the professor, some of the most meaningful conversation can be sparked in different ways. One of my English professors, Scott-Morgan Straker, gave me a tip that still resonates with me:

“The most valuable participation often happens when students ask questions. When students answer a question, that tends to shut discussion down: an interpretation has been found, and the conversation ends. But when students ask questions, that means that there’s some uncertainty or possibly controversy—in other words, something to talk about.

#4) Let go of perfection.

If you take time during class to think through ideas, the conversation will often change topics by the time you’ve decided on the perfect comment. In order to avoid the missed opportunity of contributing, accept that, while you might feel more comfortable thinking through your thoughts before speaking, what ends up coming out of your mouth does not have to be the most perfectly crafted answer. Speaking up in class is not like giving a formal presentation: you’re tone, language, and syntax will be informal, and it’s okay to hesitate or sound a little broken as you think out loud. No one expects perfection.

5) Set a goal for yourself.

Setting a specific, measurable, attainable, realistic, and trackable goal (see SASS’s guide to goal-setting) can help put what you want to do into action. For instance, over the remainder of the semester, decide that you will speak at least once per class for a course. Making one point each day, something that you can prepare in advance if necessary, is a small, digestible step in the very right direction.

Jerry Seinfeld once said that for every day that he completed his task of writing, he put a big red X over that day. “After a few days you’ll have a chain. Just keep at it and the chain will grow longer every day. You’ll like seeing that chain, especially when you get a few weeks under your belt. Your only job next is to not break the chain” (Jerry Seinfeld’s Productivity Secret). Try this technique for every time you participate in class, add a checkmark next to that day on your class syllabus, and over time this daily practice can turn into a permanent solution.

Suggestions for Further Reading:

Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World that Can’t Stop Talking by Susan Cain

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Peer Blog: When it All Goes Wrong

By Becky Bando, 4th year Con-Ed/English student.

The First Time I Experienced Stress

My family and friends often describe me as someone who never worries and always lives in the moment. In fact, I have had several close friends approach me in the past and ask how I handle my stress so well, especially when it comes to school. When I hear comments and questions like this, I agree that for the most part when I encounter a stressful situation, such as having five essays due in a week, my immediate reaction is not to panic. I have always approached these situations with the attitude that I will be okay and that I will be able to find a solution.

But almost exactly one year ago, I encountered a situation where I believe I let myself experience the physical and mental symptoms that stem from chronic stress for the first time. At the beginning of last year, my computer crashed and I lost two months’ worth of notes in three of my full-year English courses. On top of that, someone close to me had recently passed away and so I was already in low spirits. Normally, I look forward to the beginning of every year and treat it as a fresh start. So you can imagine how discouraged I felt to start off the year on the wrong foot.

I spent the first three weeks of my classes running to malls, computer stores, calling Microsoft and reaching out to friends who might be able to recover the data from my computer. I grew more nervous every time I was given back my computer with the news that they were unable to get the data off of it. During this time, I experienced constant headaches, insomnia, and shortness of breath, which made it impossible to focus in class and complete homework. I never got the data I needed off of my computer. Eventually, however, I was able to diminish my stress and reduce the severity of my dilemma through the following resources:

  1. Student Wellness Services: This resource at Queen’s offers a note-taking program where students are able to submit their lecture notes for those who are unable to make their own notes. As I had been a note-taker for several of my courses, Student Health and Wellness Services was kind enough to provide me notes for one of my courses.
  2. Professors: After telling my professor my problem, he created a Facebook group and told our class he would provide participation marks for those who uploaded some of their notes to a google doc.
  3. Friends: One of my friends who was in all three of my classes shared her notes with me. I felt ashamed when I asked her, but she made sure that I knew that she is always there for me and wanted to help me out.

After having this experience, I decided to develop my own solutions for how to mitigate my stress should another similar situation arise.

Strategies for Preventing Stress

  1. Understand the causes of your stress: It’s helpful to reflect on the sources of your stress. For example, for university students, deadlines are often a major trigger of stress, but the level a deadline causes anxiety may differ depending on the course and weight of the assignment. One way to better understand the severity of these triggers is to create a stress management journal where you record the things that you worried about that day and rate your stress levels on a scale of 1 to 10.
  2. Make a plan: Now that you know the main causes of your stress, you can make a plan for how you will tackle your stressors head-on. Some people argue that planning may just cause them more anxiety, and although this may be the case for some at first, I believe planning helps with anxiety over time. Stress is scary because we do not address the causes until it is too late. Making it a routine to understand and brainstorm solutions to stressful situations on a daily basis helps to normalize stress into our lives. In fact, it is better to think of stress in a more positive light by viewing it as a tool for recognizing the warning signs of a problem early on. Here are some good questions you can answer when developing this plan:   
  • What is the worst outcome of this stressor?
  • How much can I handle?
  • At what point will I take action?
  • What resources do I have available to me if this happens?  

3. Separate your work/stress space from your home: Attempting this step does not necessarily mean you can only do your homework in the library. It can be as simple as only doing your homework in places outside of your bedroom such as a common room or kitchen. While some people may argue they concentrate best in their room, it is important that when it’s time to sleep they find a safe space where there are no stress triggers.

4. Make your safe space a happy space: This differs for each person, but for me, I like to decorate my room with succulents and funny posters that ironically resemble a stressful situation. For example, I have a poster of a sad orange standing next to his mother who has been transformed into a glass of orange juice. This poster makes me think that although my life is not perfect, at least I’m not that orange. Yes – I have a dark sense of humour.

What to Do in a Stressful Situation

While it is often difficult to think clearly and logically when in a stressful situation, it becomes much easier if you follow some of the solutions below in situations that are only mildly stressful. By doing so, you can develop more of a habit of using your defense mechanisms in extremely stressful situations: 

  1. Take Action: Similar to the preventative strategies listed above, you can write down the main stressors you are experiencing in this moment and jot down ideas for handling them, especially in the form of specific actions. For example, if I am worrying about an upcoming essay, I will write down actions such as “create a time management plan,” and “develop an outline.” I will also write down dates/times to complete each action by.
  2. Talk to others: In many cases, it is much easier to focus on the problem than to find a solution. Even when something may not be a problem, we may feel inclined to find a reason to worry simply because we can. It’s a horrible habit! This is why talking to friends and family is so important in order to stay calm and remember that you will always be loved and valued even if you make a mistake every once in a while.
  3. Ask for help: On top of valuable resources like Student Academic Success Services (https://sass.queensu.ca/stress/) and Student Wellness Services (http://www.queensu.ca/studentwellness/home), you should also reach out to your professors and TAs. They were once students too and have your best interests at heart. Although it can be intimidating approaching a professor, especially if you have never spoken to them before, the worst they can do is say that they cannot help you.
  1. Take a break: As I mentioned before, it is hard to think clearly when you are extremely stressed. As a result, you will accomplish more if you take a break rather than exerting too much energy trying to resolve the problem right away. My favourite ways of doing this are drinking green tea, going to coffee shops and restaurants like SIMA, and watching funny movies.
  2. Just Breathe: Have you ever heard of the phrase “smiling can trick your brain into happiness”? Well, the same goes for breathing! Here is a blog on some simple breathing techniques: https://sass.queensu.ca/how-simple-breathing-can-stomp-your-test-anxiety/
  1. Relax for one hour before bed: After the most stressful days, it can take a while for you to unwind. Sometimes I will listen to apps such as “Take a Break” and “Sleep Pillow,” or podcasts on YouTube. During this hour, I will not check my email, do any homework, and will try to avoid looking at screens in general.

More Great Resources

  1. “Getting comfortable with the uncomfortable”: https://sass.queensu.ca/university-has-taught-me-to-get-comfortable-being-uncomfortable/
  2. Student Wellness Services strategies for handling stress: http://www.queensu.ca/studentwellness/health-promotion/health-resources/stress-management

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Peer Blog: Your Health Comes First

By:Veronica Sewilski, second-year nursing student

Before coming to university, I never really had any major health issues and I am extremely grateful for that. However, that all began to change at the beginning of my second year at Queen’s. I was extremely fatigued all the time. I could not focus on anything; I would walk from one place to another and not remember getting there, and I just generally felt unwell. My friends and family even began telling me that I was not acting like my usual self. At the time, I attributed all my symptoms to the stress of a new school year and pushed my worries about what was going on with me to the back of my mind because school was my priority. Long story short, I began doing poorly on my midterms and my symptoms were getting much worse. This drove me to make a doctor’s appointment where I found out that I did indeed have health issues that needed to be dealt with.

It can be extremely challenging to cope with all the demands of academia. Toss in a health crisis and all of a sudden it can feel like life becomes so much harder to manage. After being a student for so many years, I had finally gotten a handle on how to manage academic stress. However, I now had some new stressors in my life that I had to factor in and had no idea how. Luckily, SASS has a lot of resources on stress and coping strategies that provide useful tips on how to think through stress and deal with multiple life stressors.

I also had to consider how I was going to get back on track academically when I had fallen so far behind. What worked the best for me in terms of catching up on my schoolwork was to really hone in on how I managed my time. If you are looking for time management strategies, the SASS website offers some great tips, modules, and resources.

The most important life lesson that I learned from this experience is that I was almost too focused on performing well in school. It took an ER trip and being put on medication to realize that I was sacrificing my health and well-being for good grades. Turns out that by not taking care of myself to do well, I ended up doing poorly in school anyway and hurting myself even more in the process.

The point I am trying to get across here is that sometimes school needs to take a backseat. If there are other things going on in your life that are demanding your attention, maybe it’s a good idea to stop for a moment and listen. Obviously, you are a student first and that is what we are all here for. However, if you are not putting your well-being first, you can’t expect other aspects of your life to fall into place. At the end of the day, you come first.

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Writing Assignments: Maintaining Your Train of Thought and Avoiding Obstacles on the Track

Josh, 4th Year, Kinesiology

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I have always preferred to focus on one project at a time. I tend to pick an assignment to focus on and immerse myself in it. Once I start working on something I want to keep working until it is finished and I can check it off my to-do list.

If your brain works anything like mine, a million ideas will pop into your head as you start to write or plan your essay and you just have to get them out. But sometimes that isn’t possible. Our schedules just don’t work that way. Between other classes, clubs, committees, and social life, you’re bound to have another commitment that gets in the way and forces you to focus on something else.

These interruptions can be a challenge when writing a long research paper or essay. However, like all of life’s challenges, there are strategies to help overcome interruptions in the writing process. Here are a few strategies that I use to help maintain my train of thought when I am writing long assignments over time.  

  1. Start early: This may seem like an obvious one, and I’m sure you have heard it before, but starting early is especially important for longer writing assignments that you may have to put on hold for a while mid-semester. Taking a quick look at the assignment instructions will help you estimate how long it will take and how early you need to start.If you anticipate interruptions, you will be able to plan ahead and you won’t end up scrambling the night before the deadline. If starting an assignment is often overwhelming for you, SASS has a great collection of resources on managing large assignments, procrastination and time management.
  2. Make an outline: Making an outline is an important first step towards writing any paper. It will help you organize and plan your essay, which will make the actual writing stage much easier. The outline will also provide natural sub-divisions of your paper that will help you set goals for completing different components over time. If you return to working on your paper after a brief time away from it, the outline will help you become re-acquainted with the work so you can get right back into it. Check out the SASS resource on developing an outline.
  3. Set goals: Long writing assignment can seem overwhelming, and people often struggle with where to begin and how to pace their progression towards completing the assignment. Settings goals for completing certain components of the assignment will help you budget your time, and will make the assignment seem much more manageable. Examples of such a goal might be “complete the outline by week 4” or “finish writing 5 pages by reading week.” The outline that you create may be a useful starting point for developing your goals.
  4. Write yourself notes: Many times I have been working on an assignment and suddenly I realise it’s time for class, a meeting, or an intense squash match. I’m in the midst of writing, with a whole paragraph or outline planned out, and I know that I’ll never remember my train of thought the next time I sit down to continue working. When this happens, I take the last 5 minutes before I leave to jot down everything I had been thinking or planning to write. Simple jot notes like “write about novel’s setting” or “use evidence from Smith et al. study”. Anything that will help you remember what you were thinking. By writing notes for yourself, you will be able to pick up right where you left off when you last worked on the paper.
  5. Keep track of sources: When you are writing in segments or over a longer period of time, it can be difficult to keep track of where you found your information. However, appropriate referencing is extremely important to avoid academic dishonesty and plagiarism. To keep track of my sources while writing, I will often paste the link of a source or the name of an author next to relevant information as a temporary placeholder to be replaced later by the formal citation. Reference management software like EndNote is also helpful, especially when using a numeric citation style, because it will automatically adjust the numbering if you add another source earlier in the paper.

Everyone has their own methods, and what works for me may not work for you. However, if you often find yourself trying to write a whole paper in one sitting, these tips might help save you some late nights, and you’ll be on the track to stress-free writing. Next stop: success!

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